ITS BEEN A LONG TIME SINCE I'VE POSTED SOMETHING ON MY BLOG.... LATELY BEING OUT OF MOOD TO WRITE MAYBE.... NEVERTHELESS THERE'S ALWAYS A NEW BEGINNING....
Today sitting alone and looking back to what has happened till date in the first half of the year, I was being pulled by the pleasant and unpleasant happenings of my life....
There were many beautiful moments which I will cherish for life. Many unhappy phases which seemed to last for eons. I was put into many difficult situations, through which I somehow struggled with the help of my family and friends....... common now nothing can be a cakewalk or else the essence of life will fade. The vigour TO MAKE IT will die. I played my part hoping that whatever I did was the best step that could be taken.
Sometimes we face something in our lives which shatters us completely. Yet at the end of it we realize that it was necessary for us to face it or else we wouldn't have been able to grow into a stronger person.
However true the above lines must be, it is difficult and almost next to impossible to understand them when we are in a tough situation. But do we notice? God always gives us a mix, a BALANCE of happy and unhappy events. And more often than not those unhappy events are the reasons to make us deserving candidates of happy events. OK that is becoming quite complicated. I would simplify.
See when a child grows he doesn't know how it feels when he would jump off a sofa and get hurt.... so he tries it...gets hurt and learns that ''whenever we jump off from a higher point we get hurt''.... this would save him from attempting a jump off the terrace in future {though there are some maniacs who attempt suicides... probably they didn't learn their lessons well ;) }
In a similar manner since childhood we have been learning small and big lessons from mistakes (some being our own and some made by others). Unless we have these hurtful and unhappy experiences neither would we value nor have any good and successful moments in our lives.
Yet the child in our heart cries and asks, "Do I have to go through this?"
The only answer we get from our mature mind is "Hey! do you have an option?"
HEART: Not really...
MIND: Then why not face it strongly...
HEART: Oh yeah! as if its so easy....
MIND: But GOD never promised you that life would be easy. You tried crying over it and handling it. It didn't really work. Now try my 'BRAINY WAY' by being strong and smiling through your tough situations maybe this will work......
HEART: (gulp) OK will try :)
Very often the solutions to many of our situations lies in going the way around... as in using the path we were never prepared to use... And then there is no harm in trying something new. Who knows maybe this works for us better.
The key lies in having a balance of decisions taken through heart and head....
The key lies in knowing that there will always be a balance of good and bad things in life.... after every horrible incident, something very beautiful is waiting for you... And the amount of time you take to come out of that incident will be only taking the forthcoming happiness away from you...
THINK ABOUT IT!
