BATTLE..... is it always necessary to win it or do we sometimes also be satisfied losing it? no no don't just jump to a conclusion that this is the first time I have lost a battle and so this instant post... There have been many such occasions in my life but yet on some of them it wasn't depressing, there was a feeling that my loosing it was making the other person happy... and believe me loosing instead seemed to be the best option available..... The opponent becomes so important for us that his/her winning becomes extremely important.....
Then the question arises "Why do we at all have a battle with such an important person? My mind answers "They are important wont be realizable if such situations don't arise; its having a battle with such people that actually affects us the most."
"How is it possible that they don't see our happiness?" My mind "Its a difference of perception, maybe they think our happiness lies in the decision they have taken." Its funny both of us are seeking each other' happiness when finally its the togetherness that will bring the true contentment to our lives......
Very often we realize it quite late that differences do come in opinions, fights do happen, arguments take place, and all other unpleasant things happen..... but they happen first of all because the opinion of the person matters.... otherwise if strangers think anything it doesn't really matter.... What matters is the presence and perception of our loved ones... our near & dear ones....
Disagreements should never be misunderstood to be a lack of compatibility..... it maybe just that someone wanted the best for us and was thinking of better options than we have thought of..... but very often its not possible to think so positively at the time of a battle.....
I fear that it will be too late until we realize our mistakes, until we realize their importance, until we realize why it was bothering so much to hear a different perception from someone, why the rejection of our feelings by someone mattered, why disagreements happened, until.........
Thinking of all this my mind itself is divided into 2 parts & having a huge battle....
If its too late already then I must say its a LOST BATTLE now.......
But if its not late go on take some steps to make it a WIN WIN SITUATION.....
THINK ABOUT IT!
