HAPPY REALISATION!!!!!

i was in the middle of something and suddenly realized that we wait to share our feelings with the ones whom we really love and want to share with them everything that's happening in our life- the good, bad, neutral experiences with all the minute details; waiting to meet them and tell them everything oh that anxiety.... but then what we sometimes don't realize is that those special ones may not be that interested and still we go on and on..... they might think ''oh god! what kind of a person she is every time she has some problem or the other, why does she go in such details every time i don't even want to know the headlines of her experience,.....''

but wait there's something more i can see on the other side...... there are these OTHER people who are not that important for us but somehow we are very important to them. we unknowingly like their support but tend to take them for granted and there's a day when these not so important people have had their patience level tested too much and they decide to hide somewhere where we cant see them....(and yes you are going in the right direction about what happens next) - we start missing them like anything.....

now wait for a moment and try and retrospect how many people are there in your life ? how many of these fall in the important category and how many in the not-so-important one? try to look keenly at all the corners of your life to see those who really care about our weirdest experiences too.....hmmmmm i am sure by the end of it you will have some strange realizations (that is if you can relate to what i am saying!)
in both the experiences there can be two people involved each time and remember you can be either one of them!!!!!

but since in everyday life we don't sit and think about these things we miss on some really really important people..... people who are worth our love and care....
then go ahead today and tell them how actually important they are to you as you are to them.....believe me those small gestures would mean a lot and would change your life completely (for the better that is) ........

cherish the people who are near you ,those who are far away will come near automatically....
think about it!

WHY

Sitting alone right now only one thought comes to my mind "WHY?"
WHY do people hate each other...
WHY the ones for whom we care so much don't care for us in return....
WHY do we build expectations when we know people wont be able to fulfil them.....
WHY do we hurt ourselves by thinking of those who don't care at all.....
WHY don't we just stop living for others only....
WHY don't we rather see only those who love us....
WHY do we make sacrifices when they hurt us so much...
WHY is trust always broken....
WHY do we loose hope midway....
WHY dont we think before speaking and acting....
WHY is it so difficult to become disonnected...
there are so many such whys! so many...the list is probably endless
but the list of answers is no where to be seen

its not easy to maintain relations be it friends, family or any other kind of relation.
there should be a limit set by us to stop us from overdoing for others at the cost of our own emotions and also when the others seem to be least concerned.

but whenever one thinks of doing that he realises that the love for that person (be it any relation) overshadows the pain....

and again after thinking so much i ask myself WHY??????

2day i would like 2 share a very nice story which i read somewhere

ITS ANOTHER DAY.......

….. Again I have to go to office

Ohh, this is me… I shouted having a glance on my snap in today’s news paper.

But what the HELL it is doing in the death column??

Strange…

One sec... Let me think, last night when I was going to bed I had a severe pain in my chest, but I don’t remember anything after that, I think I had a sound sleep.

Its morning now, ohh….. It’s already 10:00 AM, where is my coffee?

I will be late for office and my boss will get a chance to irritate me.

Where is everyone…??? I screamed.

“I think there is a crowed outside my room, let me check.” I said to myself.

So many people….. Not all of them crying…

But why some of them crying…

WHAT IS THIS??? I m laying there on the floor…

“I AM HERE” … I shouted!!! No one listen.

“LOOK I AM NOT DEAD” … I screamed once again!!! No one is interested in me.

They all were looking me on the bed.

I went back to my bed room.

“Am I dead??” I asked myself.

Where is my wife, my children, my mom-DAD, my friends?

I found them in the next room, all of them were crying… still trying to console each other.

My wife was crying… she was really looking sad.

My little kid was not sure what happened, but he was crying just coz his mom was sad.

How can I go without saying my kid that I really love him, I really do care of him. ??

How can I go without saying my wife that she is really most beautiful and most caring wife in this world..??

How can I go without saying my parents that I m … just because of u ??

How can I go without telling my friends that without them perhaps I have done most of the wrong things in my life… thanks for being there always when I need them… and sorry for not being there when they really need me..

I can see a person standing in the corner and trying to hide his tears…

Ohh… he was once my best friend, but a small misunderstanding made us part, and we both have strong enough ego to keep us disconnect.

I went there.. And offered him my hand, “Dear friend… I just want to say sorry for everything, we r still best friend, please forgive me.”

No response from other side, what the hell?? He is still preserving his ego, I am saying sorry… even then!!!

I really don’t care for such people.

But one sec…. it seems he is not able to see me!!!! He did not see my extended hand.

My goodness… AM I REALLY DEAD???

I just sat down near ME; I was also feeling like crying…

“OHH ALMIGHTY!!!! PLEASE JUST GIVE ME FEW MORE DAYS…”

I just wasn’t to make my wife, my parents; my friends realize that how much I love them.

My wife entered in the room, she looks beautiful.

“YOU R BEAUTIFUL” I shouted.

She didn’t hear my words, in fact she never heard these words coz I never said this to her.

“GOD!!!!” I screamed… a little more time plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..

I cried…

One more chance please… to hug my child, to make my mom smile just once, to feel my dad proud on me at least for a moment, to say sorry to my friends for everything I have not given to them, and thanks for still being in my life….

Then I looked up and cried!!!!

I shouted….

“GOD!!!! ONE MORE CHANCE PLEASE!!!!”

"You shouted in your sleep," said my wife as she gently woke me up. "Did you have a nightmare?"

I was sleeping….

Ohh that was just a dream….

My wife was there… she can hear me…

This is the happiest moment of my life…

I hugged her and whispered…. “U R THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND CARING WIFE IN THIS UNIVERSE…. I REALLY LOVE U DEAR”

I can’t understand the reason of the smile on her face with some tears in her eyes, still I m happy…. :)

“THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS SECOND? CHANCE.”

So, Now it’s not late.... Forget your egos, past ...., and express your love to others …. Be friendly .… keep smiling and be happy for ever…..Love N life are Not Going to b wid u for ever too...:) Express It..

THIS STORY I HOPE WILL MAKE MANY REALISE that its love & loved ones that should matter the most in a person' life

a new start
i am not that much into blogging so don't know what has to be written. this is the first time i am writing a blog!
i feel its a fresh start to many things today. though i don't have any particular example.
i think life is gonna change. something very different is waiting. UNIQUE as i like it to be alwaz. life is actually very confusing, just when we are convinced that things are going worse there is a ray of hope rising from the direction opposite to that which we are facing.
start has its own worries with it. fear whether its the right path, fear of losing out on something good and lots of stuff go in and come out of our minds.
but it has a bright side too.... a direction that we choose will help us bring out the best in us. hope of tasting success this time, facing new challenges, priceless experiences, hope to realise someday that thisthe best decision of my life .... and i eventually notice that positive list turns out to be longer
well then i am all set to '''get set goooooo..... '''