Monday, August 24, 2009

HAPPY REALISATION!!!!!

i was in the middle of something and suddenly realized that we wait to share our feelings with the ones whom we really love and want to share with them everything that's happening in our life- the good, bad, neutral experiences with all the minute details; waiting to meet them and tell them everything oh that anxiety.... but then what we sometimes don't realize is that those special ones may not be that interested and still we go on and on..... they might think ''oh god! what kind of a person she is every time she has some problem or the other, why does she go in such details every time i don't even want to know the headlines of her experience,.....''

but wait there's something more i can see on the other side...... there are these OTHER people who are not that important for us but somehow we are very important to them. we unknowingly like their support but tend to take them for granted and there's a day when these not so important people have had their patience level tested too much and they decide to hide somewhere where we cant see them....(and yes you are going in the right direction about what happens next) - we start missing them like anything.....

now wait for a moment and try and retrospect how many people are there in your life ? how many of these fall in the important category and how many in the not-so-important one? try to look keenly at all the corners of your life to see those who really care about our weirdest experiences too.....hmmmmm i am sure by the end of it you will have some strange realizations (that is if you can relate to what i am saying!)
in both the experiences there can be two people involved each time and remember you can be either one of them!!!!!

but since in everyday life we don't sit and think about these things we miss on some really really important people..... people who are worth our love and care....
then go ahead today and tell them how actually important they are to you as you are to them.....believe me those small gestures would mean a lot and would
change your life completely (for the better that is)
........

cherish the people who are near you ,those who are far away will come near automatically....
think about it
!

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